A 'welcoming thought'---how can I be a 'Source of Encouragement'?

I have written a little about this subject sometime ago.  Nonetheless, I think it might be worth repeating from time to time.  I am sure we all can recall experiences that we can reflect on more then another as we were growing up.

In my experience, it was with my twin sister.  My mother would always, always treat us as equals.  Twins that are not identical, as with any sibling, have different personalities.  Somehow, with twins, one might think that they are alike in more ways than they really are.  In my case, my twin sister was the extrovert and I was the introvert.  So, since we would do most things at a certain age, this would sometimes create a conflict.  One particular time sticks out to me.  It was when we were at the age to begin driving a car. We lived out in the country on a farm that had a horseshoe-shaped driveway.   Mother would let us take turns driving around in our driveway.  Mother's plan was to take equal turns.  However, my twin sister would want to take more turns in a roll and I would tell her that was ok, to go ahead.  Our Mother would speak up and say that it was only fair to share equally.

This little story doesn't seem hardly worth mentioning, now does it?  Sometimes, it is in the little things that transpire in our 'living life' that 'sticks', so to speak, in our hearts and minds.  These little things can make a difference to 'someone'.  I share this little story with you to express how important I think it is for everyone of us to Be a Source of Encouragement.   My sister was just expressing who she was and so was I.  However, when it happens even in times of innocence, it is still vital to be there for another to speak up with words of encouragement.  One might say that this situation was different because it was 'a parenting act'.  Well, maybe so, nonetheless, it was important enough that it lingered in one's mind and heart that had an impact for 'good'.  My sister and I enjoy this memory still today. We laugh at how we fussed and shared life growing up.  Perhaps, a 'sister bond' was in the making going through an experience such as this little 'act of encouragement' from our Mother.

My Mother was being a Source of Encouragement.   We realize, as parents, we do this all of the time or so we think/hope that we do.  I feel it is very important to be a Source of Encouragement to another in all walks of life.

I have never taken my Mother's Source of Encouragement lightly.  I would like to think/pray that it has helped shape me into the person that I am today. She was a great Source of Encouragement in our families' lives and many others.
I thank God for allowing me to have a mother as she was to me.


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I will conclude my post today with words of wisdom from the following.

Always stay connected to people and seek out things that bring you joy.  Barbara Johnson

A single word, if spoken in a friendly spirit, may be sufficient to turn one from dangerous error.  Fanny Crosby

The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, or the kindly smile, or the joy of companionship.  It is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him with his friendship.  Corrie ten Boom

It is when we come to a 'higher power' in our nothingness, our powerlessness and our helplessness that He then enables us to live in a way which, without Him, would be absolutely impossible.  Elisabeth Elliot

Today is mine.  Tomorrow in none of my business.  If I peer anxiously into the fog of the future, I will strain my eyes so that I will not see clearly what is required of me now.  Elisabeth Elliott

Cheerfulness is its own reward--but not its only reward.  Criswell Freeman

Be so preoccupied with 'good-will' that you haven't room for 'ill-will'.  E. Stanley Jones

The attitude of kindness is everyday stuff like a great pair of sneakers.  Not frilly.  Not fancy.  Just plain and comfortable.  Barbara Johnson

Yesterday is just experience but tomorrow is glistening with purpose and today is the channel leading from one to the other.  Barbara Johnson

'Encouragement' given freely in this world can do so much.  It offers happiness and joy in abundance, plus; it fuels avenues to grow in His Loving grace day by day.  Would it not be great, if every day could be a cause of celebration?  By celebrating the gift of life, we can protect our hearts from the dangers of pessimism, regret, hopelessness, and bitterness. 

Striving to serve as a 'Source of Encouragement' takes 'all of our time' as it 'takes none of our time'.  A Paradox indeed.  Why?  Perhaps, it is because it 'becomes a way of life' living for others? ! 

Kind words create 'echoes' that last a lifetime and beyond.
A 'welcoming thought'---how can I be a Source of Encouragement'?
Let us give 'thanks' for the many 'Sources of Encouragement' we have received and seek to extend 'Sources of Encouragement' to others.

Until next time
God Bless
Doris

 9/11 

WE WILL NEVER FORGET

The title of today's post rings with meaning for everyone across our land.  'WE WILL NEVER FORGET'!  Time stood still on that date.  Our world changed because on September 11, 2001 (also referred to as 9/11) there were a series of four coordinated terrorist attacks by the Islamic terrorist group al-Qaeda against the United States.

As we reflect on this day/date, may we remember the things that came from it that were viewed from willing hearts. Those 'willing and caring hearts' went into action that turned future days into days of learning, growth and productive blessings.

This isn't a day to take lightly.  There were tragedies that will never be forgotten.  There were hearts broken that will forever be fragile in their losses of family, friends and co-workers.  Nonetheless, God has a plan to restore hearts and souls for 'good'.  May we cradle positive thoughts and try to move forward with renewed hope. 

Let us continue to celebrate the many things that are meaningful.  Let us remember those many lives that were lost in honor and hold dear the freedom everyone of us are privileged to have that live in the USA.

Until next time
God Bless

Doris 

'THE WONDERMENT OF LIFE AND LIVING' IS STILL 'A WONDERMENT TO ME'.

CAN WE DO THIS?

        'Go ahead, take that leap of faith'

Sounds simple enough, doesn't it?  As I painted these strokes on canvas, my thoughts went into many directions and areas of 'life and living'.   It can become quite interesting as we focus our attention on these few simple words.  Especially, when they are 'captioned with this pic that is shown with it.  It can stir our souls into the 'might be' in our lives toward 'we can be'.  

It is nice to be back sharing with those that choose to read 'the wonderment of life and living'.

Until next time,
God Bless
Doris 

THANK YOU!

'THANK YOU, perhaps another time......'time' will tell'

I sincerely 'THANK' each and every one that has given me words of encouragement in my writings on my Blog; 'THE WONDERMENT OF LIFE AND LIVING'.

I am writing this today to inform any viewers that might read this that I am closing my blog soon.  

I 'titled' this writing, 'THANK YOU, perhaps another time.......'time' will tell' because I have
learned to 'never say never'.  Nonetheless, 'time will tell'.

I wish all of you the best.


God Bless
Doris 

Take 'time' to look back......

'TAKE 'TIME' TO LOOK BACK as this year ends-and, also, to 'LOOK FORWARD'.

Why, one might ask.  The past is gone and to 'look forward' in the future; how could this be of help?  This might be one way to view it in our thinking.  Nonetheless, there could be 'value' in doing so.  As we reflect on our experiences in 2016, the 'hard times' as well as the 'good times'; we can see 'life lessons' to help us grow in so many ways for our continual journey for ourselves and to help others.
Taking 'time' to 'listen' and to be 'silent' truly takes 'time' and 'discipline'. 
                                                                             

As I reflect on some of my experiences in 2016, I see challenges that turned to blessings for me and, hopefully, for others.  And, I experienced many 'good times' and I am very grateful.  I feel that I have learned from both. 

All of us are here striving to reach a 'goal' we have chosen to live out our life even if it isn't evident in an 'outward and/or conscious way'.  We are 'all' 'living' so life is happening.  We have a measure of control in how we choose to live out our life more then it might sometimes seem.   No, we can't control every minute of our day and how 'others' act out nor the life expectancy of ourselves or another.   However, we can act in ways that are helpful and constructive in opening up possibilities for a brighter, better future for our ourselves and in turn others.   No, we aren't all on the same path because 'all' of us have been given 'a free Will' to choose what 'way of life' we wish.  Depending on what 'free will' choices we have made, they will affect our beliefs, actions, challenges, responsibilities and blessings that come our way. 

Nonetheless, 'nothing' will change in one's growth, as a person, in their life and living without; 'each individual taking 'responsibility' and 'action' in one's 'own life and living'.  Nobody can make us 'happy'.  Nobody can 'fix' things for us to have an easy ride in life. Perhaps, for awhile and yes, people do affect how we feel at times.  However; 'the good life' will not last if/when somebody 'hands' us material things.  Plus, when we are given 'no responsibilities' to 'take ownership' for 'our own actions' that will allow us to grow into a mature individual. 'Tough Love' is priceless.  

Nobody is exempt from 'challenges in life'.  The 'aging process' will come to every human being if they possess longevity.  The acceptance, in this fact, can open up so many 'good things' as they are reflected upon and, therefore, enjoyed.  Most 'grandparents' are elderly.  What 'joy' this is to experience as one ages into this particular generation.  There are always things we 'enjoy' and things we 'dread' in any generation we find ourselves in.  'Honor the space between no longer and not yet'......written by a Nancy Levin.   

The value in looking back to where we have been and looking forward to where we will go can be priceless, as well.  We can reap many valuable 'resources' from our challenges and from the joyous times we have experienced in 2016.  As we look forward in to the New Year of 2017, we can bring hope, promise and perseverance to give us joy with a positive attitude in our tomorrows.

Everybody has a 'story of their own'.  Nobody truly knows 'another's story' or has a right to tell it as 'they might see it'.  Nonetheless, nobody is exempt of heartache of many colors.  Plus, everybody has something to be 'thankful' for', everybody.  There are so many beautiful things to be 'thankful for' every single day. Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right.  We do not need an intelligent mind that speaks.  We do need a patient heart that listens. 

Yes, we all have choices that we 'alone' can make if we so choose.  It is up to 'each person' to move forward to a brighter future.  It doesn't matter what we have experienced in our past nor what we will experience in our future; we have the choice to 'help ourselves' to a better life for ourselves and others.  We have the choice to 'move forward' stronger with perseverance and joy as we grow from our past experiences.  This can be our mission and a desire of 'mature individuals' to be an example of hope and love.  Yes, even through our challenges that for some unknown reason might have come our way.  There is a reason bigger then ourselves and everybody will have a richer fuller life when it is realized.  Let it be in 2017. 

As we close out this year of 2016 and look forward to the coming year of 2017, how in the world can it do anything but help to realize the blessings that we have received in 2016?  Let us 'give thanks' and look forward with 'hope, believing in a higher power' then ourselves with promise going forward into 2017?  

Wishing everyone a Happy New Year in 2017.

Until next time,
God Bless
Doris

                            VETERANS DAY

SO WHO ARE THEY, VETERANS, THAT IS? 
SOME PEOPLE SAY THEY ARE 'PEOPLE' THAT HAVE GONE 'OFF TO WAR'.
SOME PEOPLE CALL THEM, 'THE FORGOTTEN'. 
SOME PEOPLE SAY, THEY ARE 'OUR HEROES' LISTENING TO 'THEIR CALL'.

VETERANS ARE 'COMMON PEOPLE' THAT WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
VETERANS ARE 'COMMON PEOPLE' LIKE YOU AND I.
VETERANS ARE 'FATHERS, MOTHERS, AUNTS, UNCLES AND SIBLINGS.
VETERANS ARE 'COURAGEOUS PEOPLE' THAT 'CRY'.

VETERANS HAVE BEEN TO PLACES THAT NEVER LEAVE THEM.
VETERANS NEED 'SUPPORT, KINDNESS, AND LOVE'.
VETERANS BECOME 'DIFFERENT PEOPLE' FROM HENCE THEY HAVE COME.
VETERANS NEED PRAYERS THAT REACH 'THE HEAVENS' ABOVE'.

VETERANS HAVE 'SCARS' THAT ARE MANY FROM THEIR EXPERIENCES, 
MOST COULD NEVER CONCEIVE.
SOME NEVER WANT TO SPEAK OF 'THEIR VETERANS DUTIES'
BECAUSE OF UNPLEASANTNESS NOR WOULD WE BELIEVE. 

VETERANS ARE BRAVE MEN AND WOMEN.
VETERANS ARE 'PEOPLE' THAT SERVE/SERVED IN A SPECIAL WAY.
AS WE CELEBRATE THIS, WELL WORTH, 'VETERANS DAY',
MAY WE SALUTE THEM WITH 'HONOR' AND 'GIVE THANKS' 
FOR GIVING ALL OF US BETTER DAYS.

MAY GOD BLESS OUR VETERANS AND GIVE THEM PEACE.

Until next time
God Bless
Doris

Today we have a right to 'vote'.........God help us all......

TODAY IS ELECTION DAY!  MY, MY, HOW DIFFERENT THIS ELECTION IS COMPARED TO ANY, EVER BEFORE!  Of course, only 'HUMANS' can vote.  Wouldn't it be wonderful if 'humans' could be more 'united'?    
Perhaps, sharing a little of 'nature' in the mix of things will bring a smile or two.   

I usually do not write, speak and/or even share about politics.  I do not like any part of them.
Wow, how times have changed from years ago in how 'politics'/'elections' are viewed, handled
and are represented FOR THE GOOD OF OUR U.S.A .  

Today, I have chosen to say one thing.  Regardless of any ones' 'opinion', 'belief' and 'right';
that person 'owns' it.  So, depending on how 'ANY PERSON' has chosen to exercise 'their right',

in my opinion; 'their space' should be respected..  NOBODY HAS 'A RIGHT' to condemn, judge,
act out in any harmful way. 

I feel the same about one's belief, as well.  It is so comforting to know that what other people think isn't 'any of my business'.  What a 'freeing feeling'.  I can say that this is a place that has taken me years to arrive to. 

As I woke this morning, I thought, "Wow, God sure has a busy day TODAY!"  And, on second thought, I thought, No, He doesn't; He already knows His people in every way.  He sees and He  knows the bigger picture.  Plus, He has given His people the 'free will' to choose their 'right to vote'.  It is time for 'the  people' to act out 'their belief/right/opinion through this 'voting process'.  

The days that follow into years to come, long after 'my generation' has passed, will have a lingering effect of today's election.  

May each person that chooses to vote to the persons that have chosen 'not to vote'; may ALL have made their 'decision' based with worthwhile thought and prayer for the 'right and real reasons'; 'FOR THE GOOD OF OUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN, and the entire USA.'

Until next time.
God Bless

Doris

'A BEAUTIFUL FALL DAY'

                                                     

            'A BEAUTIFUL FALL DAY' 

TODAY IS A BEAUTIFUL FALL DAY,
RADIANT IN MANY COLORS OF ORANGE.
THE SOUNDS OF CROWS' CAW, CAWING,
A SENSE OF NOTHING COULD GO WRONG.

IN THE SOUNDS OF GOD'S 'FREE AND LOVING CREATURES'.
ONE CAN STILL HEAR THE STILLNESS AND CALM. 
THIS TAKES ONE'S BREATH IN 'AN AWE' OF BEAUTY
OF THIS MIRACLE IN TODAY'S DAWN.

THERE IS A 'REASON FOR EVERY SEASON'.
'FALL' IS FULL OF BEAUTY IN COLORS OF RED, YELLOW, ORANGE AND BROWNS.
THE CRISP SNAP OF LEAVES AND THE CHILL OF THE BREEZE
BRINGS FORTH 'THANKFULNESS' THAT IS DISCERNIBLY FOUND. 

THE VERY NEXT MORNING SOMEWAY, SOMEHOW,
THE SAME THING WILL APPEAR BY 'HIS GRACE'.
AS THE NIGHT IS TUCKED AWAY, ONCE AGAIN, INTO  DARKNESS,
ANOTHER INFINITE BEAUTY WILL UNFOLD TO TAKE ITS' PLACE. 
                                                                                                                 Doris S/2016

                                                                                                               

until next time
God Bless
Doris

"Do we realize?'

Do we realize 'the influence' and/or what we 'say' or 'do not say' can be of  'help' or 'a hindrance' to another?  If our answer is 'yes' to this question, then what about 'actions only' in our daily living with another person? 

I think if we really looked at these questions in a perceptive way; we would be shocked to the gravity of the outcome of all of the above. 

In today's world, everyone is busy racing to one appointment to another for various reasons.  Some are required in our world of making a living and striving to have a life with quality intentions for family and friends and community.  Surely nothing wrong in this way of living. We can say 'we have to live this way'.  We can say 'the world has forced us to live this way'.  We can choose to say that 'this is the way I want to live'.   Making 'good choices' is a goal worth trying to achieve for everyone.  
I write these words to, hopefully, give all of us 'pause' in examining for even a brief time as to how ALL OF US have an IMPACT/INFLUENCE on another.  Do we realize how our actions, words expressed or not even expressed can influence other's thoughts or thinking?  This may have a good 'impact' or it could be an influence that would not be a healthy choice. 

'Let's think about our words & actions'

In saying this, I want to share a story with you.
Recently there was this 'little elderly lady' that was going about her life and living without a clue anyone was watching her actions.  Picture this lady living away from 'the business' of the world in a 'quiet quaint place' with nature all around her'.  She had everything she needed.  She was content, however; she found herself in a situation that was unique but not one that she could call 'her own' or she would want to.  She had some decisions to make that would change her way of living.  Therefore, it would change others, as well.  She continued to live her life without communicating details as to how she handled her situation.  The only things that was shared was she reached out to other entities and broaden her thinking in seeking solutions to her current issues.  She was friendly to all around her and she did brush shoulders with friends, family and neighbors. She had a 'serene way' about her. She didn't mind others in their comments or  cliches'.   Daily, weekly, monthly, encounters were a part of 'the knowing' as to the 'how she was' were present.  Nonetheless, this is common to most. Time passed and 'ordinary living' was, once again, noticeable and recognized with thankfulness. 

Then on a particular sunny day, this 'little elderly lady' received a telephone call from a person stating she wanted her to know how she had 'impacted' her thinking on a particular subject in her own life.  
She said she had watched her and without many words being expressed from her; she had found 'a new hope and a new perceptive' in how she was looking at a situation in her own life.  She wanted to 'thank' this little elderly lady.  
Before the conversation was ended; they were 'thanking' one another.  

This story could have ended very differently. This is one of the reasons that I wanted to share it.  We ALL have 'an impact' on one another in some way.  Let it be one that is a 'good one'.  

Sometimes, 'Actions Speak Louder then Words.   

Until next time.
God Bless 
Doris

DO WE 'LOSE' OR DO WE 'LEARN'?

it is 'our' choice

Life has a way of crowding our thinking into 'Losing, Winning and/or Learning'.  Hopefully, we take up the 'choice of Learning'.  

Every day we have the opportunity of 'choosing our attitude' in how we will view our day.  

This decision is 'ours to choose'.  However, it is easier 'said' then 'done'.  As we all know, this can be viewed and chosen with many different emotions.  

This world is full of many different people with many different views and beliefs.  However, who are we to judge another?  As I age in time, I can see so many different changes and in ways of living life.  Change is inevitable.  Less we realize this and try to adjust to it; we can all be 'losers' in the 'whole of life and living'.  

Fall is just around the corner.  Another change of the seasons.  Most of us have a favorite season.  I find all of them have a good amount of beauty in their own way.  However, once again, all seasons have a side of gloom when we look for it.  

I heard once 'weather' has no emotion.  'Weather' is 'weather'.  It is all in how each of us look at it and adjust accordingly on any given day.  So, as we look ahead into September.  We will see adjustments, changes and attitudes will change as we move into the fall months of the year. Some of these will be by choice and some of them will be forced upon us.  

Will we lose, win or learn from these changes?  I can think of a thought as in 'how can we lose, win or learn' from a season of the year?  Can we?  I think we can 'learn' in any season of the year by the calendar's reading or in our hearts of living everyday on purpose.  
If not, then why was it given to us in the beginning of time.  I believe in our 'creator's time' of beginning until the end of time' is 'a way of life' in our living each and every season of 'our life'. We can choose to learn and grow every day from these experiences that are sent our way, by 'our choosing', or by a way that 'we have no control'. 'Our Will' is still there for the choosing. 

As we look at life in a way that we can 'learn' in every situation, it can take away the 'winning and losing' part entirely.  This is refreshing and will help keep us 'on purpose' every day.  More joy, peace, contentment and carefree to enjoy and project love. 

Perhaps, we could say the same with 'people' that cross our path every day.  
Nonetheless, life is full of beauty in the eye of the beholder. Each human being that we see or cross our path; is a 'moment in time' for learning.  Life moves by quickly, and we do not look
and/or think about such 'moments' as such.  However, they will/do add up to what will lean in to our thoughts and choices in some tiny fiber of what we call: living life.  Oh, we can't see them, per sa; however, they are there woven into a part of each of us. 

Hopefully, as the changes come and go into the fall season, we can look at them in a way that we will 'LEARN' from them in allowing us to be a better person within ourselves and then in turn, to others. 

Every day is a day to begin in 'thanksgiving'.  Every day is a day to realize how fortunate we are.  Every day is a day to make 'good choices'.   Every day is a day to 'LEARN'. 

"Just living is not enough," said the butterfly.  "One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower."  by Hans Christian Andersen 

Until next time.
God Bless
Doris  

Beauty in nature

"Butterflies' Paradigm"

'Butterflies on a Mission'

"Butterflies' Paradigm"

Tiny, fragile, beautiful golden butterflies
offer many folk great pleasure and smiles.
Their beauty reflects uniqueness.
They travel daily, miles and miles.

Butterflies cannot be concerned of their journey.
Nonetheless, no reason to be sad and such.
They offer joy, while fulfilling their mission in pollination,
allowing 'beauty in flowers, plus, 'good feelings' to those they touch.

Sometimes in their leaving, it seems a hindrance to the flowers.
Their mission they follow as the creator designed, 'one way'.
Perhaps, they are an example for our reflection and understanding.
They could open us up to 'new insight and hope' - - - 'doorways'.

Incredible 'Windows of Opportunities' are given
when our hearts are open for growth in our tomorrows.
They can reflect motivation and purpose to all of us.
Similarly as the butterflies' mission journey are to the flowers.

Faithfully, as we accept our challenges as 'learning possibilities',
may we take them in stride without listening to ... 'Tick Tock, Tick Tock'?
This is when we are truly 'living with perseverance in love
for ourselves and others' ... I kid 'you not'.

                                                                                         by Doris Swertfeger
                                                                                                                   2016
Until next time.
God Bless
Doris

'The Family of the Heart'

                             'The Family of the Heart'

The 'Family of the Heart' includes all people

that stand in a loving relationship to one another. 

Where care, concern, communication, hope and love is an art,

that becomes 'a way of life' to our sisters and brothers.

Plus, when we live consciously and grant freedom, equally, to all people,

as we would wish for ourselves to receive,

to hear with our hearts and not our ears only,

with a willingness and compassion to perceive.

It is in the small things done with full-hearted concentration

that we 'find freedom' and 'feel peace' and 'love'.

A way of bonding with each other is woven

that allows the spirit to flow from above. 

Also, when we truly love our neighbor as ourselves,

we 'are offering' every action to be something beautiful and kind.

The 'family of the heart' permits reverence in all of life relationships

for the joining of hearts and minds.

There is no value in pain and confusion as one might think.

The value lies in the rearrangement of the elements

that will lead to clearer vision for all.

This is 'a process' to 'channel our energy into love' for access to 'the real'

that 'keeps us on purpose', of our 'destiny call'. 

The 'awareness of unknowing', creates 'hope' and 'faith' in life itself.

We all sense the mystery and wonderment of life. 

Less we have no risk, grief, pain, nor loss,

it would take away the 'teachers of strife'. 

As we listen with 'our hearts', we can discern 'a higher power' presence,

affording strength to carry us far.

This opens the channels for 'healing and wholeness',

to unfold to 'all people' today and all of our tomorrows. 

                                                                                        by Doris Swertfeger

                                                                                                                 2016

Until next time

Doris

''Hope Pebbles'

Sometimes in life we are given 'a valley' to cross.
All of us have a a 'story' we could tell.
Instead of a 'valley', we could call it a 'hill'.
Does either of these ring a bell?

Let us reflect, if you will, in our present, past or future.
Perhaps, when in focus, we could also see 'sunshine rays'.
The hills and valleys thin out in our awareness.
Now we can see more clearly, solid ground, replaces each day.

As I look back from hence I have come.
I can see little ripples of 'ups and downs'.
This leads me to believe as I count them,
those were 'hope pebbles' leading me to 'solid ground'.

There was 'incredible hope and promise' in places, I had not yet seen.
Answered prayer, the beauty of nature's renewal of Spring, brightened my day.
There was a lingering in 'awe' of 'amazing miracles' in the midst of this sight.
This allowed me to see 'beyond myself' with 'hope', a much better way.

Let us remember as we walk this 'journey in life',
there isn't anything that can ever be beyond our 'maker's' reach.
By choice, we can focus on 'hope pebbles', as stepping stones,
to guide us to 'solid ground' of 'faith' to give us a peaceful belief. 
                                                                            by Doris Swertfeger  '2016

Until next time
Doris

'THANKFULNESS = The Language of Love'

As we greet another 'Thanksgiving Day' on our calendars, let us pause and give 'THANKS' for an 'abundance of blessings' from our 'hearts'. 

In the story of the pilgrims back into early 1600; 'THANKSGIVING DAY' WAS ONE OF GIVING 'THANKS' FOR THEIR BOUNTY OF PLENTY.'  The memoir of the Cornucopia was to fill it up with fruit/berries and such as a symbol of 'Thanks'.  The Cornucopia is still used today in various decorations.  Perhaps, it is just used as a 'decoration' and the 'true meaning' of its origin has been lost over the years.  In today's time of living, most of us have more than an abundance of plenty, indeed. 

Are we as grateful as the pilgrims were in the early 1600's?  It seems our being grateful in today's world is less in appreciation than in years passed.  Maybe, this is because we do have more in abundant things. As we reflect on this, let us not forget the 'intangible things' that money can not buy us.  Nonetheless, 'thankfulness' can be elaborated on in various degrees. Let's reveal a few, shall we? 

Could it be the same in our 'thankfulness' of what the 'true meaning' and 'reason' of many things that cross our path?  Thankfulness can be plenty of things depending on the 'perceptive' of each person.  Thankfulness is not some 'magic formula'.  It is 'the language of Love' that opens all of us up to more understanding within ourselves and, in turn, flows out to others. Thankful Attitudes' are connected as in 'links are in a chain' that are only as strong as its weakness link'.  

'Give Thanks' for Everything' 

Do we have a 'Thankful Attitude' at this Thanksgiving season to allow ourselves to embrace those things that come our way?  Thankfulness comes in many fashions, colors and avenues. One might not think of 'thankfulness/thankful attitude' as such.  Most things in life have a 'rippling effect' in some entity.  

I think it is important to maintain 'hope', 'give thanks' and always remember we have a 'mighty power' beyond ourselves.  Through this 'heavenly power' in love, through grace, are gifts given to us to help add to our 'Thankful Attitude'.   It might be a gift in a tangible way or it might be a gift in an intangible way. It might cross our path in our welcoming it and it might come into our path in a way that the human side of us would like to curse it.  It might be helpful to keep in mind that all things that do come to us can be 'gifts' 'to season' us into a better person for hence it has come.  Once again, a 'thankful attitude' can be 'our friend' in any season.  

I read where two people in a relationship felt they had to always and ever question the other to know if they loved them.  Possibly, they didn't have a relationship, at all.  Actions will reveal 'authentic love' over time in a relationship.  There will be no need to wonder because all involved will know.  'Thankful Attitudes' will have recognized this 'window of opportunity' permitting it to unfold into what this 'language of love' is meant to be all along.  

'True Thankfulness from a thankful attitude.' How can there be one without the other?  This entity is as relevant as time is to the universe.  Again, it will come full circle over time.  When we can embrace this promise with a 'Thankful Attitude'..... everything else will fall into line called: living life on purpose in 'this language of Love' = Thankfulness. 

When we have 'Thankful Attitudes' in our 'Thankfulness' in all arenas of life and living, than we will have been a part of opening up huge opportunities for peace and love in our celebrations that are called; 'THANKSGIVING DAY'.   We have been given bountifully. 

I wish this kind of 'Thankful Attitude' in all of your 'Thankfulness'; this Thanksgiving Day and every day into the New Year. 

Until next time
God Bless
Doris

RSDS/CRPS - A Disease that needs more AWARENESS!

RSDS (Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy Syndrome was the original name for this disease)
CRPS (Complex Regional Pain Syndrome is the name that has been attached to the disease in recent years)

I have found this disease is a very difficult disease to experience, seek treated and create AWARENESS OF.  

I will share just a short version as to what RSDS/CRPS is.  Should there be anyone interested in learning more about this disease, please leave a comment.  There are professional means to begin a support group.

I was diagnosed many years ago now in Houston, TX with this disease.   It will live within me, in some fashion, the rest of my life.  It is a disease that there is no cure for, as of today.  It can go into remission with the proper medications and therapy; when the disease is diagnosed, early on, after onset.   Preferably, within three to six months.  
However, mine was not diagnosed for over one year.  Therefore, I was in a treatment program for 18 months in order to function.  Since it took so long for my diagnosis; I do have some limb damage that gives me issues from time to time.  The important thing to remember is: I can walk without aid and I can function independently.  I am a happy person and I do not experience the Burning Pain all of the time.  My RSDS/CRPS is in remission at the present time.   One never knows when it will rear it's ugly head, so to speak.  

The 'MAJOR SYMPTOM' of what RSDS/CRPS is: IS A BURNING PAIN.  It effects the central nervous system.  It is vital to continue the circulation of blood flow to the extremities. When the blood flow isn't flowing evenly over time, the extremity will begin to atrophy (waste away).  It is vital for the core/center nervous system to work properly for all parts of the body to work accordingly.  RSDS/CRPS is a condition that interrupts this process.  An example would be the thought of an electrical process when lightening strikes and the electrical system that is designed to work evenly and accordance with the wiring in line.  And, when it is interrupted through another means that isn't invited or belongs in that area, it misfires. The exact same reasoning can be applied as to what is happening in a human body when an injury, an illness and/or trauma of any kind enters the body that isn't welcomed or it is not being treated properly.  Over time, usually, a three to six month period, RSDS/CRPS begins to take over with Burning Pain.  It is vital for treatment of medications and therapy to keep things moving and active for recovery to begin.  

The Number One Question seems to be: 'How does somebody get this disease?' It is created through 'trauma' of some kind.  It can be from a surgery that went badly, it can be from a construction worker hitting his leg the wrong way in his work, it can be as simply as a little boy running into first base and hitting his elbow/knee the wrong way.  It is the 'firing of nerves' that creates 'trauma' in the human body.  This 'trauma' is not treated and/or it lingers in the body in a mis-firing way.  Possibly unknown to the person at the time.  However, when it lingers for a period of time and does not get better; symptoms will creep out in different ways.  A Burning Pain might occur and/or a limb might show redness, the skin might be shiny and tight and/or the limb might turn cold and purple at times.  All, symptoms of improper blood flow.  

It depends on how long it takes for this treatment to be acquired as to the damage it leaves behind.  Again, comparing RSDS/CRPS to the illustration of the electrical process.  Depending on how much lightening damage has occurred, will depend on how much maintenance can be done to make the electrical pole whole.  

This is a very brief explanation as to what RSDS/CRPS is.  This no way completes all that should and can be shared about what RSDS/CRPS.   

However, should anybody be interested in learning more and/or have a desire to be a part of forming a support group in the Evansville Tri-State; I would encourage you to comment on my blog.  
Perhaps, if there is just one that can be added to another person; an AWARENESS can be brought to RSDS/CRPS to help others.

Thank you for caring.

Until next time
God Bless
Doris

A 'LOSS OF A PET' is an experience.....................................

A 'LOSS OF A PET' is an experience that certainly qualifies to be on the 'List of Experiences' that is or will be one of the most difficult experiences a person will go through on their journey of life'.

We all have a story if/when we have taken a 'pet' into our home to love and they have become a real part of our family.  All of our stories will be a bit different.  However, the real part in losing a pet will possibly not be so different.  The owners' hearts of this unconditional loving pet, will feel as if it has an 'unfilled pit'.

I am so happy that there are processes in which our hearts can heal.  Hopefully, each pet owner will have become a better person from their choice of selecting a pet to become a part of their home and heart.  After all, isn't this a part of what life is about?  

'Acceptance of our loss' isn't taking away 'the pain process' of the many entities that surround 'our pet's fate'.  I believe that everything that happens fits into a pattern for good to those who love unconditionally.  There isn't anything that crosses our path randomly when it 'flows from the heart of love'.  In realizing this, yet another part of our healing occurs when 'life happens'.
As we look at the 'bigger picture' of what 'our pet' has so freely given to us; there is nothing in the world that we want for our pet more than to 'love them unconditionally'.  Loving equally, in returning back to them what they have so unconditionally given and taught to us.  This is when one can have peace and knows in our heart of hearts that 'our pet' and 'our mission' have come to completion.  Loving memories can start to feel good and the ease of our pain can lessen when they surface, day by day. 

It doesn't matter the circumstances in one's mind if the pet is a 'rescue dog', 'from an newspaper ad', a 'dog running the streets' or in a 'pet shop'.  At the time of the loss, it is ultimately the same.  The 'hearts of owners' that care in a way that are deserving to have chosen 'their pet' aches in similar ways as they grow to love and accept 'their pet' as a 'member of their family'.  

Sometimes, some people view their pet as an 'object', in time.  It appears as if they think and, perhaps, truly feel that they can bring a pet into their ownership for 'their pleasure only'. There isn't much regard to 'the pet's rights'.  And, sometimes, there isn't much regard to 'their responsibilities as owners'.  'Time or thought' hasn't been taken into account if/when their pet 'become sick', 'aging in their years' and/or when 'the pet might become an inconvenience'. Sometimes the 'family pet' can easily be moved onto a 'checklist of options' to rid themselves of the pet. 

As I pen these words in our loss of Daisy May, I am so thankful she was 'our pet', a 'true member' and 'loving part of our family' in every way.  Daisy gave us so much joy and happiness in our everyday living.  She spoke volumes and 'taught us unconditional love' in a unique fashion in God's design of 'dogs' incapability of speaking a word.

'Her unconditional love' and 'trust' was amazing from the day we received her from a family member.  Daisy was starving, tied up in a state park in Nashville Tennessee.   
Daisy, also, showed symptoms of abuse in her right eye.  Plus, she was very frightened of a broom which gave us pause, as to where the droopy right eye possibly could have originated from.  A friend to a family member helped rescue her.  She was than brought to our home to love and she became a 'real part' of our family. 
Our hearts melted in sadness as to how a 'human being' could have taken such actions in this loving animal that we didn't even know, as of yet.  From that moment on, she was 'our pet', a 'member of our family' and we knew, in our hearts of hearts; she would live with us with our giving her the best possible care; we, as pet owners, could give to her. 

Daisy was a fighter.  Daisy had a total of 76 seizures in a period of two years and seven months. She was diagnosed with leukemia in February of this year, 2015.  With each new challenge, she remained gentle in our direction and guidance and in giving her medications that she did not want.  She was mischievous in that she would spit the tablets out after our heads were turned when we thought 'that particular mission' was complete.  She was so smart.  However, she always came to us in love and gave us kisses and hugs.  She knew we cared and was only trying to help her. 

Daisy, also, showed she loved and cared for 'us'.  When a stranger would come to our door, she would start barking and be about her business in alerting us.  And, any time we were ill; Daisy would position herself close by; showing her love and care in our behalf.  She accepted all other 'family dog members' that came to visit in our home and she played with our little grandchildren with great ease. 

I realize as I pen these words today of our loving Daisy May that this is a means of 'healing for me'.  It is just another means to 'help mend and heal my heart; a heartbeat at a time'. 

We feel that Daisy received the better professional veterinarian care that she could have received through Dr.Coleman and the entire staff at Parkdale Animal Hospital.  Daisy loved going for each visit.  It did not make a difference if she was well or ill, there was a trust between Daisy and Dr. Coleman.  She, also, loved the treats that she received there and would wag her 'stub tail' as we entered the entrance of Parkdale as if to say: 'are we there yet?' 
We certainly extend our thanks to Parkdale and the staff and we will never forget their part in our journey with Daisy.  

I will close with one request, if I may.  If anyone reading this, has a pet or wish to share this with someone that does;  My wish for you is to hold 'your pet' a little tighter tonight and look deeply into 'their eyes to the window of their heart'.  Perhaps, you will discern another opportunity for 'your pet' to teach you.  Yes indeed, 'our pets' are teachers in engagement without uttering a word.  And you know, whatever it might be; I am sure it will bear a resemblance to 'unconditional love'.

I know that we have learned volumes from 'our pet, Daisy'.  I wish the same for you!

Thanks for bearing with me if you are still reading this post.  You have been a part of our story of Daisy.

God Bless Daisy May 2006-2015

'DAISY MAY' 

Until next time
God Bless 
Doris

         GOOD FRIDAY

'Good Friday' is the darkest day
in all Christian history.
Perfect love reached its' height.
This seemed to be a mystery.

Easter is the greatest day
in Christian history for all.
     "JESUS AROSE'! 
"HE BECAME OUR RISEN LORD".

God sent His only son
into the world that we
might live through Him.
The way' the Almighty' designed life to be.

He forgives and gives us
newness of life.
He tells us 'HE' is 'the way'
'the truth' and 'the light'.

Gift of choice has been given to renew our faith
in the living risen Christ.
Jesus walked forth from the tomb.
He prepared our journey for what is holy and right.


May we renew and reflect on this day
for the true meaning of Christ's mission.
Let us pray for 'ALL PEOPLE' in the cosmic world.
Give Thanks, Trust, Hope, Love -- Peace be Still- Listen.

by Doris (Miller) Swertfeger 2015

Until next time
God Bless

'THE MAGNOLIA TREE'

Not long ago, the Magnolia tree was so barren.
There wasn't any life in sight.
The winter weather has been a tough one.
Now spring has arrived, changing things into flight!

The little branches have hints of green
and their tiny blooms are coming forth.
Oh, one can get excited each day
seeing and snapping another pic of new growth! 

The birds will soon be coming
To prepare for their new babies a bed.
A place to be cradled and nestled in warmth.
A safe place for the babies to be fed.

Isn't it strange how we long for each season
to come at their scheduled time each year?
Somehow, the 'spring time' of 'new beginnings',
we always and ever, hold very dear. 

The trimming of the old growth in our gardens and lawns,
we anxiously want to go out and trim away.
Allowing the new growth to start anew,
Fulfilling its' purpose, day after day.

Is there a lesson in the Seasons of the year
that would be good for us all to heed?
Perhaps, the message is a 'God given example'
of how all of us can start anew, again and again. 

copyrighted by
Doris Swertfeger

Until next time
God Bless