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| it is 'our' choice |
Life has a way of crowding our thinking into 'Losing, Winning and/or Learning'. Hopefully, we take up the 'choice of Learning'.
Every day we have the opportunity of 'choosing our attitude' in how we will view our day.
This decision is 'ours to choose'. However, it is easier 'said' then 'done'. As we all know, this can be viewed and chosen with many different emotions.
This world is full of many different people with many different views and beliefs. However, who are we to judge another? As I age in time, I can see so many different changes and in ways of living life. Change is inevitable. Less we realize this and try to adjust to it; we can all be 'losers' in the 'whole of life and living'.
Fall is just around the corner. Another change of the seasons. Most of us have a favorite season. I find all of them have a good amount of beauty in their own way. However, once again, all seasons have a side of gloom when we look for it.
I heard once 'weather' has no emotion. 'Weather' is 'weather'. It is all in how each of us look at it and adjust accordingly on any given day. So, as we look ahead into September. We will see adjustments, changes and attitudes will change as we move into the fall months of the year. Some of these will be by choice and some of them will be forced upon us.
Will we lose, win or learn from these changes? I can think of a thought as in 'how can we lose, win or learn' from a season of the year? Can we? I think we can 'learn' in any season of the year by the calendar's reading or in our hearts of living everyday on purpose.
If not, then why was it given to us in the beginning of time. I believe in our 'creator's time' of beginning until the end of time' is 'a way of life' in our living each and every season of 'our life'. We can choose to learn and grow every day from these experiences that are sent our way, by 'our choosing', or by a way that 'we have no control'. 'Our Will' is still there for the choosing.
As we look at life in a way that we can 'learn' in every situation, it can take away the 'winning and losing' part entirely. This is refreshing and will help keep us 'on purpose' every day. More joy, peace, contentment and carefree to enjoy and project love.
Perhaps, we could say the same with 'people' that cross our path every day.
Nonetheless, life is full of beauty in the eye of the beholder. Each human being that we see or cross our path; is a 'moment in time' for learning. Life moves by quickly, and we do not look
and/or think about such 'moments' as such. However, they will/do add up to what will lean in to our thoughts and choices in some tiny fiber of what we call: living life. Oh, we can't see them, per sa; however, they are there woven into a part of each of us.
Hopefully, as the changes come and go into the fall season, we can look at them in a way that we will 'LEARN' from them in allowing us to be a better person within ourselves and then in turn, to others.
Every day is a day to begin in 'thanksgiving'. Every day is a day to realize how fortunate we are. Every day is a day to make 'good choices'. Every day is a day to 'LEARN'.
"Just living is not enough," said the butterfly. "One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower." by Hans Christian Andersen
Until next time.
God Bless
Doris
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| Beauty in nature |
"What Rests on a Foundation is Every Bit as Critical as the Base Itself"
I find life experiences interesting. I am sure there are others out there that do, as well.
Generations come and go. There doesn't seem to be too much difference in how 'relationships', play out, if you will, in accordance to past generations. Please allow me to clarify.
In all families and friends, we find there are no perfect entities. The 'human aspect' is always in play. However, behavior patterns of their actions unrelated to the 'foundation of the soul' are revealed. Or, are they? I feel that they are in time. Do you ever feel that what appears is happening in certain circles are not necessarily how the events are truly unfolding? It is only in appearance to the world's view? Mostly, from the 'human aspect' view.
Have you ever felt or noticed how some people strive each day to be on purpose in each and every action that they do out of character, responsibility, integrity and respect for themselves and their children? I certainly hope so. This is a person that has a foundation that stands tall in their 'soul' and nobody can ever rip it away from them.
We all were created this way and/or the 'center of the soul' was intended to be exercised fully and daily in all persons' lives. But, when 'free will' was given so graciously to each of us, not everybody chose this for their path. I feel the intent of the creator was to 'balance' the 'human entity' and the 'spirit of the soul'. In doing this, we always and ever come full circle to the 'choices' we 'choose' in our actions each and every day.
There are so many misconceptions as to how things really are in ones surroundings and in the public view.
I was recently reading from Philip Gulley's writings. He stated: what rests on a foundation is every bit as critical as the base itself. He drove home this thought so brilliantly and humbly to me.
He was sharing about a home their family lived in long ago. He said that the only thing this ole house had going for it was a 'strong foundation'. And, in light of this, it was not to be discounted but it was not enough. The boards were spongy-soft with rot. It was like pulling on five-dollar pants over hundred-dollar shoes. Oh, they thought they could just give it a face-lift with a coat of paint and it would be fine and look nice to everybody in the neighborhood. Nobody would really know what was going on in the inside. But, they were wrong. The foundation started to crumble and everybody that thought 'one thing' was so wrong in how 'things really were'.
Could this story be similar to the way circumstances and situations look in our lives and the people around us? We are human and it hurts when we strive everyday to do what is right and uphold our character, respect, honesty, perseverance and humility. We strive to raise our children to show respect and grow up into mature and responsible persons with dignity and the things that we feel and know is holy and right.
Perhaps, we are back to the measuring of the 'Foundation of our Soul' versus 'Our Human Side'. The purpose of such a measuring is not to provoke guilt, but rather to remind us of those treasures which never lose their value. (Philip Gulley)
We can find hope and value in stretching ourselves against this 'wall of our soul' for 'our spiritual fruit' and take our measure in an important exercise and one we can choose to continue. In our soul, we really know who, what and how things truly are going down and/or around. And, we need no flare and we can feel great freedom.
Yes, we have choices and they can make a difference. We can choose to show the world a beautiful surface of ourselves and do nothing and pretend to the world. In time, it will all be revealed and it will not stand. Or, we can choose to know we have a 'strong foundation' with character, responsibility, respect and keep maintaining each level of 'our being' everyday that will stand strong forever. We can choose to strive to live life on purpose for ourselves, for our family and community.
Do we love people for who they are? Or do we love them for who we think they ought to be? I feel a big problem in our world today is that we fall in love with images instead of persons. God forbid that our underwear should show, that our masks should slip.
As we continue on our journey, and we feel the swords of life hitting us in a way that we are not deserving of, may we always remember; 'forgiveness is the key that unlocks the door of resentment and the handcuffs of hate. It is a power that breaks the chains of bitterness and the shackles of selfishness'. Corrie ten Boom
We can never fully enjoy the present if we'll bitter about the past. Instead of living in the past, make peace with it...and move on. We can never change anybody else. Nevertheless, we can stand firm in our 'foundation of the soul'. Than, we will surely know it will support and be enough from its' 'base itself' for whatever life brings to us.
Until next time
God Bless
Doris
